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小故事,大智慧---[谢谢SWWWW的提供]

本主题由 韵文 于 2008-6-17 20:35 设置高亮
知足常乐。。。

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不错,不错,就是有些是重复的呢!不要打我哦,受益匪浅啊!谢谢楼主!
雪无踪,情亦无踪:雪无形,情亦无形.冬来,雪倾城;爱来,情倾城;冬过,雪化水;爱过,情化泪.

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钓竿
  有个老人在河边钓鱼,一个小孩走过去看他钓鱼,老人技巧纯熟,所以没多久就钓上了满篓的鱼,老人见小孩很可爱,要把整篓的鱼送给他,小孩摇摇头,老人惊异的问道:「你为何不要?」小孩回答:「我想要你手中的钓竿。」老人问:「你要钓竿做什么?」小孩说:「这篓鱼没多久就吃完了,要是我有钓竿,我就可以自己钓,一辈子也吃不完。」
  我想你一定会说:好聪明的小孩。错了,他如果只要钓竿,那他一条鱼也吃不到。因为,他不懂钓鱼的技巧,光有鱼竿是没用的,因为钓鱼重要的不在“钓竿”,而在“钓技”。
  有太多人认为自己拥有了人生道上的钓竿,再也无惧于路上的风雨,如此,难免会跌倒于泥泞地上。就如小孩看老人,以为只要有钓竿就有吃不完的鱼,像职员看老板,以为只要坐在办公室,就有滚进的财源。
今天比昨天好,这就是希望!

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神迹
  法国一个偏僻的小镇,据传有一个特别灵验的水泉,常会出现神迹,可以医治各种疾病。有一天,一个拄着拐杖,少了一条腿的***,一跛一跛的走过镇上的马路,旁边的镇民带着同情的回吻说:「可怜的家伙,难道他要向上帝祈求再有一条腿吗??」这一句话被退伍的军人听到了,他转过身对他们说:「我不是要向上帝祈求有一条新的腿,而是要祈求祂帮助我,叫我没有一条腿后,也知道如何过日子。」
  试想:学习为所失去的感恩,也接纳失去的事实,不管人生的得与失,总是要让自已的生命充满了亮丽与光彩,不再为过去掉泪,努力的活出自己的生命。
今天比昨天好,这就是希望!

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鲨鱼与鱼
  曾有人做过实验,将一只最凶猛的鲨鱼和一群热带鱼放在同一个池子,然后用强化玻璃隔开,最初,鲨鱼每天不断冲撞那块看不到的玻璃,耐何这只是徒劳,它始终不能过到对面去,而实验人员每天都有放一些鲫鱼在池子里,所以鲨鱼也没缺少猎物,只是它仍想到对面去,想尝试那美丽的滋味,每天仍是不断的冲撞那块玻璃,它试了每个角落,每次都是用尽全力,但每次也总是弄的伤痕累累,有好几次都浑身破裂出血,持续了好一些日子,每当玻璃一出现裂痕,实验人员马上加上一块更厚的玻璃。
  后来,鲨鱼不再冲撞那块玻璃了,对那些斑斓的热带鱼也不再在意,好像他们只是墙上会动的壁画,它开始等着每天固定会出现的鲫鱼,然后用他敏捷的本能进行狩猎,好像回到海中不可一世的凶狠霸气,但这一切只不过是假像罢了,实验到了最后的阶段,实验人员将玻璃取走,但鲨鱼却没有反应,每天仍是在固定的区域游着它不但对那些热带鱼视若无睹,甚至于当那些鲫鱼逃到那边去,他就立刻放弃追逐,说什么也不愿再过去,实验结束了,实验人员讥笑它是海里最懦弱的鱼。
  可是失恋过的人都知道为什么,它怕痛。
今天比昨天好,这就是希望!

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靠自己
  小蜗牛问妈妈:为什么我们从生下来,就要背负这个又硬又重的壳呢?
  妈妈:因为我们的身体没有骨骼的支撑,只能爬,又爬不快。所以要这个壳的保护!
  小蜗牛:毛虫姊姊没有骨头,也爬不快,为什么她却不用背这个又硬又重的壳呢?
  妈妈:因为毛虫姊姊能变成蝴蝶,天空会保护她啊。
  小蜗牛:可是蚯蚓弟弟也没骨头爬不快,也不会变成蝴蝶他什么不背这个又硬又重的壳呢?
  妈妈:因为蚯蚓弟弟会钻土, 大地会保护他啊。
  小蜗牛哭了起来:我们好可怜,天空不保护,大地也不保护。
  蜗牛妈妈安慰他:「所以我们有壳啊!」
  我们不靠天,也不靠地,我们靠自己。
今天比昨天好,这就是希望!

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宽容
  一只小猪、一只绵羊和一头乳牛,被关在同一个畜栏里。有一次,牧人捉住小猪,牠大声号叫,猛烈地抗拒。绵羊和乳牛讨厌牠的号叫,便说:「他常常捉我们,我们并不大呼小叫。小猪听了回答道:「捉你们和捉我完全是两回事,他捉你们,只是要你们的毛和乳汁,但是捉住我,却是要我的命呢!
  立场不同、所处环境不同的人,很难了解对方的感受;因此对别人的失意、挫折、伤痛,不宜幸灾乐祸,而应要有关怀、了解的心情。要有宽容的心!
今天比昨天好,这就是希望!

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引用:
原帖由 韵文 于 2007-6-27 11:40 发表
SWWWW提供的,还有很多!希望朋友们能喜欢!
SWWWW是什么  人吗 还是网站 是不是那里有更多的故事

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刚才搜了一下 五星级别地 呵呵

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好帖
来是偶然,走是必然。随缘不变,不变随缘。

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文章都写的很棒哦~!
快乐就好!

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不错不错,偶也喜欢,只是我没有多的时间上网

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不错,不错,顶顶哒。。。。。。。。

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Story

A long time ago, there was a huge apple tree. A little boy loved to come and lay around it everyday. He climbed to the tree top, ate the apples, took a nap under the shadow... He loved the tree and the tree loved to play with him. Time went by... the little boy had grown up and he no longer played around the tree everyday. One day, the boy came back to the tree and he looked sad. "Come and play with me," the tree asked the boy. "I am no longer a kid, I don't play around trees anymore." The boy replied,"I want toys. I need money to buy them." "Sorry, but I don't have money...but you can pick all my apples and sell them. So, you will have money." The boy was so excited. He grabbed all the apples on the tree and left happily. The boy never came back after he picked the apples. The tree was sad.

One day, the boy returned and the tree was so excited. "Come and play with me" the tree said. "I don't have time to play. I have to work for my family. We need a house for shelter. Can you help me?" "Sorry, but I don't have a house. But you can chop off my branches to build your house." So the boy cut all the branches off the tree and left happily. The tree was glad to see him happy but the boy never came back since then. The tree was again lonely and sad.

One hot summer day, the boy returned and the tree was delighted. "Come and play with me!" the tree said. "I am sad and getting old. I want to go sailing to relax myself. Can you give me a boat?" "Use my trunk to build your boat. You can sail far away and be happy." So the boy cut the tree trunk to make a boat. He went sailing and never showed up for a long time. Finally, the boy returned after he left for so many years. "Sorry, my boy But I don't have anything for you anymore. No more apples for you..." the tree said."I don't have teeth to bite" the boy replied. "No more trunk for you to climb on" "I am too old for that now" the boy said. "I really can't give you anything ... the only thing left is my dying roots" the tree said with tears. "I don't need much now, just a place to rest. I am tired after all these years." The boy replied. "Good! Old tree roots is the best place to lean on and rest. Come, Come sit down with me and rest." The boy sat down and the tree was glad and smiled with tears.......

This is a story of everyone. The tree is our parent. When we were young, we loved to play with Mom and Dad... When we grown up, we left them, and only came to them when we need something or when we are in trouble. No matter what, parents will always be there and give everything they could to make you happy. You may think that the boy is cruel to the tree but that's how all of us are treating our parents.

Be honest with yourself by paying attention to your actions. Actions speak louder than words, and they always tell the truth. What do your actions say about you? If you say you
love your job, but your actions say otherwise, which do you think is more true - your words or your actions? On the other hand, if you say you're not good at a certain job, but your
actions say otherwise, that's also important. What do you do with this insight? You can use it to make more beneficial choices in your life. By being honest with yourself based on your previous actions, your actions moving forward will be based on truth instead of just what you tell yourself.
 
Take time out during the day for quiet time to listen to your inner voice. I call this inner voice the voice of God. This is similar to point number one, but it takes it a step further - beyond the natural mind to the supernatural heart. You may want to use your quiet time to meditate or pray. However you use this time, the key is to shut out all of the noise around you by focusing deep within yourself. Breathing deeply during quiettime will also help you focus. I know it's hard to find quiet time during a particularly busy day, but it's so important - even if it's just 10 minutes a day and you have to sneak away to get it. Quiet time can really make a difference in your life. It enables you to hear God speaking to your heart reminding you of His perfect love for you.
 
Despite what your subconscious may be telling you, you can have love with no limits. The key is to unconditionally love yourself first.

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这个故事很引人深思,现把它翻译如下:(译的不好的地方,大家可以用自己的理解来完善它!)

  很久以前,有一棵很高大的苹果树,有一个小男孩子很爱这棵树,每天都会来到这棵树下,他爬到树上,吃上面的苹果,玩累了在树阴下面休息,他很喜欢这棵树也很爱和这棵树玩耍! 时间一天天的过去,小男孩慢慢地长大,长大后的男孩不再每天都来和苹果树玩耍!
有一天,这个男孩来到这棵树下,他的样子看起来很悲伤。
“来,和我一起玩吧”苹果树向男孩发出了邀请。
“我不再是一个小孩子,我不再和树玩耍,”男孩回答,“我想要玩具,我需要钱来买这些玩具!”
“对不起,我没有钱,”苹果树说,但是你可以摘下我身上的苹果把它们卖掉,然后你就有钱了“
男孩听了很兴奋,他摘下树上的苹果,很高兴的离开了,男孩摘下了苹果后再也没回来,树感到很悲伤。
一天,这个男孩又回来了,树很激动,”来和我一起玩吧“树恳求男孩
“我没有时间玩,我现在要工作养家,我需要一座房子,你可以帮我吗?”男孩说。
“对不起,我没有房子,但是你可以砍下我的树枝来建造房子”,于是男孩又砍下树上所有的树枝,然后快乐的离开,看到男孩开心,树也感到高兴,但从此男孩子再也没来过,树又重新陷入了孤独和悲伤中。
一个很热的夏天,男孩又回来了,树仍然很高兴,“来和我一起玩吧”树说
“我很忧愁,我现在年纪慢慢老了,我想要去航行放松一下自己,你可以给我一艘小船吗?
“你可以用我的树干建造你的船,你可以航行的很远,很快乐!男孩又确下了树干做了船。
然后出去航行并且很久都不再出现。
很多年后,男孩终于还是回来了,树看见男孩,对他说:对不起,我的孩子,我再没有任何东西可以给你了,再也没有苹果了”树悲伤的说,
“我也没有牙齿来吃苹果了”男孩子回答说。
“我没有树干可以让你爬了”树说,
“我现在太老了爬不动了”男孩说,
“我真的没有东西可以给你了,唯一的东西就是我的将要死去的树根!”树含着泪说,
“我现在什么也不需要了,我只需要一个地方休息,经过很多年我已经累了”男孩说,
”好吧,老树根是躺下来休息的最好地方,来吧,和我一起躺下来休息吧”,树说,男孩坐了下来,树高兴的流下了老泪。

对我们每个人来说,这仅仅是个故事,故事里面的树就是我们的父母,当我们年轻的时候,我们爱和爸爸妈妈玩,当我们长大点的时候,我们离开他们,当我们有所需要或者遇到麻烦的时候,我们才会重新来到父母身边,但是不管怎么样,父母总是在那里,并且给我们他们能够给的可以使我们快乐的东西,你可能认为小孩子对待树是残忍的,但那正是我们所有的人用来对待父母的方式。

请关注你的行为,真诚的检查一下你的内心,行动胜于语言,行动告诉你什么是真实,你的行为告诉了你些什么呢?假如你说你热爱你的工作,但你的行动却相反,你认为哪一个是真的呢?你的话还是你的行为?又或者,你说你不善长某一类工作,但你的行为却相反,那也是重要的,你用你的洞察力做了些什么呢?在你的人生中,你可以用它来做出更大利益的选择,对你自己坦白,基于你先前的行为,你的行为的指向是基于真实的基础而不仅仅是你告诉自己了什么,
每天在安静的时间里来聆听一下你内心的声音,我认为这内心的声音是上帝的声音,它超出自然的神秘,把你的心带到更远,你可以用你的安静时间来沉思或者祈祷,在这些时间里,你需要关闭来自你周围的所有噪音,然后把注意力集中在你自己的内心深处,你可以做些深呼吸来帮助自己集中注意力,我知道在一个特别忙的日子里面要找出一个安静的时间是难的,但是它是重要的,它每天仅仅需要十分钟,这些时间可以让你的生活有很大的不同,它能让你听到来自上帝的声音,并且用它的最完美的爱和你对话。
不管你的潜意识告诉你什么,要拥有无限的爱,首先要无条件的爱你自己!
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以前在报纸是或者是网上都看过,重读一遍,别有滋味!
我想抓颗星星坐在月亮上

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这里的每一个故事 哲理都是那么深刻受益非浅
不以物喜,不以己悲

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不错,

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不错的小故事哦

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